Your prostate - natural energy & pleasure
We often experience sex with our mind but it's our body that really feels it and that nourishes us. Yet like our cars we often don’t know how it actually runs. How to to service it properly, and how to tune the engine, it’s something we often leave to the professionals, doctors, therapists yet when we learn how to explore this ourselves then or mind body connects, we know how to work it blissfully, we instinctively know the right fuel to put in and how good it feels when we feel vital and healthy.
Ignorance when it comes to our body certainly isn’t bliss. Sadly only a small percentage of men have experienced orgasmic pleasure through external prostate massage.
Your prostate is your central sexual energy centre. External prostate massage creates blood flow and stimulates sperm production, it’s an area that’s often missing out on loving touch and it's imperative for blood flow which can protect from Prostate Cancer. It’s a very important part of Prostate and general Male Sexual Health. Prostate Massage also increases sperm production and blood flow to power a stronger erection, especially when combined with kegel/PC muscle exercise.
Prostate Massage activates your vital energy it fuels your life that why when we're not enjoying our sexuality we often lack energy and are prone to depression. We need to stimulate our sexual energy to fuel our energy and passion for life. This is why aour sexuality is so important.
A woman’s 2nd orgasmic centre is located there too. Massage and certain lovemaking positions arouse this area for deeper and more intense orgasms than clitoral orgasms can ever give a woman.
Knowing your body, every facet of it enables you to keep your own body healthy guide you and your partner to deeper states of bliss, relaxation and wisdom. Take time to explore what feels good through touch and massage, for if we truly don’t know and feel at one with our own energy and body how can we expect anyone else to?
Peace and love
Premature Ejaculation & Erectile Dysfunction-Your Home Remedy
We are always evolving or we should be,learning and growing. It's when we stay stuck that life can't move on. And we should all want that. The practices I give you are space for you to really just enable you to let go of the negative layers of the past so you can enjoy your life and sex life the way you want it to be. I have provided you with The best home remedy to overcome PE or ED especially in the case of those who bring anxiety and stress home. It's daily practice of anything that changes the habits we had formed or enables us to learn how we can evolve to living the life we want.
We can utilize the part of our brain that enables us to be really good at a certain sport, activity or language; the more you practice the more proficient you become, this goes for making love....it becomes natural and knowing.
Just like we have the capability to learn so do we have the capability to unlearn or replace a bad habit with a good or habit.
Most of our learning happens up to the age of 7 and mostly we learn from by example and repetition rather than consciously and we haven't always grasped the wisdom that comes from experience except when it comes to the practical; look both ways before you cross the road or you'll get run over. If we feel that we weren't loved because we weren't shown how to love, hugs, kisses, cuddles. Or we were told we had to do better, we didn't do it well enough, or we were told we didn't do something well enough all this negativity stays with many people.
Those negative experiences stay with us and become ingrained in our subconscious and unfortunately some people believe those voices from the past, the judgments of others. That is not YOU, it's not the core of the person you are now, the grown up who isn't a child.
Negative experiences of sex also stay with us and pop up at the worst possible times. We have the ability to let that experience go, to let that time go, to unlearn the practices that became habits, masturbating quickly, guiltily, that it was shameful,.....why do we believe other people's negative sexual viewpoints? When making love and finding pleasure from our bodies is the most amazing sensation we can enjoy.
Often we have just formed habit of making love quickly for whatever reason. Or if we really believe the media that stress the common belief that everyone is stressed and anxious and that is a normal state- it's not. Some people believe the doctors when they say PE can only be relieved by anti depressants or numbing sprays or that ED can only be treated by viagra, cialis, pumps or penile injections. There is always another way and a natural alternative.
There is always another way. During one to one session you can experience the power our body holds. If you want to learn how to last as long as you want with your partner. If you want enable yourself to regain your sexual power and enjoy naturally hard erections even if this has been happening for years and is been caused by illness or medication or just the stress of work and relationships.
You're welcome to experience a one to one session 0870990970 or take a look at the videos I created just for you so you can enjoy your sex life naturally.
Wishing you unlimited bliss.
Natural Ways to Treat Low Libido
'There can be many reasons that cause your sexual desire to plummet and we can look at a few simple things you can do if low libido or lack of sexual energy has just occurred or it's something that has affected you for many years.
If your sex life has always been amazing and then suddenly it's nosedived then hopefully it's something that can be tweaked by a few lifestyle changes, I know this is always talked about but it's the modern diet of processed food that gradually builds up toxins in your body. When you were young alcohol didn't seem to affect you but years of drinking builds up sugars in your body and affects your liver which depletes testosterone levels. Give your liver a rest for 3-4 days and try drinking say Friday to Sunday. And avoid making love after a drink, your body is numb and we all need sensation to feel and connect with our sexual energy.
Milk Thistle which you can get at any wholefood/health store will cleanse your liver.
Lack of sleep, stress and anxiety are the first factors to look at if you're otherwise healthy. Exercise, lifting weights and movement are the best ways to combat stress and help you sleep better. Qi Gong or Tai Chi opens and connects you to your sexual energy. I often treat men who've given up playing sports like Football and Rugby and within a year their sex life has taken a tumble, it's not so much the actual playing of the sport but that does make for a happy healthy life, it's their fitness level and weight gain and an inability to sleep because they're just not so physically tired from training and matches.
Deep breathing which is taught during my sessions is a good way to get all your vital organs working including blood flow to you penis.
If you want to go down the vitamin route as a lack of these vital vitamins can destroy your libido, please note you need to take megadoses of these vitamins for a reaction and kickstart your body.
Magnesium to help you sleep just a small dose is all that's needed of this, but combined with exercise and taking all phones, tablets, laptops out of your bedroom and not using them for 2 hours before bed
Vitamin C - megadose - the only side effect if loose stools and that's when you know your body has enough, try 3 or 4 teaspoons 3-4 times a day.
For Stress and Anxiety- Niacinamide Non Flush B3 and B Complex- megadose
A megadose is taking doses 3/4 times a day until you feel a difference, just up the dose over 3 weeks.
If you feel anxious just try 2 handfuls of cashew nuts a day, I know it sounds weird but you might be surprised at just what little natural things can do.
Sometimes we just feel we're not connecting to our partner in a sexual way, the physical touch has stopped or isn't spontaneous or and maybe also the talking on a deeper or playful level and just having fun. all that can be easily rectified if you haven't been aware.
If none of these works then the situation may be a little more complex and you're welcome to talk to me about other practices that treat low libido that has been affecting you on a long term basis.
Wishing you peace and bliss.
Natural Ways to Cure ED
There are several practices that will enable you to regain your sexual power if you feel your penis is not been as strong as it used to be. This could be due to the aging process, or health reasons that cause ED including medication especially for diabetes or blood pressure or chronic illness, including Prostate Cancer, other cancers, heart disease and spinal injuries. One of the best exercises you can for your sex life is your kegel exercises I have included some really helpful videos which show and explain how to do these exercises correctly to promote genital muscle strength for stronger blood flow to fuel a solid erection.
But another aspect which is often overlooked is promoting sexual connection between your mind-body, more sensation and a enhanced orgasmic experience, This is not just a physical practice but promotes an innate knowledge of one's own sexuality.
Please go to my 'About' to view these self help videos and my Home Practice Video & Manual explain this practice in more depth.
After the age of 35 most men naturally start to lose penile muscle tone. Kegel exercises keep the whole genital area young and tight. Theses exercises also strengthen muscle tone and sexual sensation which is lost during most Prostate Cancer procedures. this also protect against cancers because increased blood flow flushes out toxins.
So many reasons to take care of your PC Muscle as well as the rest of your body.
WThe Menopause is a state of mind. That was the overiding message if you happened to see the program fronted by Mariella Frostrup, still a very alluring women well into her 50s.
This article is aimed at Women to bust a few myths and for Men realize that women can be beautiful and vital whatever their age so please read this whatever gender you are. I too am in my 50's and as fit as I've ever been, I still do all the action activities that I did as a teenager, riding horses at a serious level, swimming in the sea, cycling, hill walking and other outdoor pursuits.
So apart from HRT which is a questionable route how can we sail through the change of life. In this program they looked at all the alternative methods although strangely not yoga or Qi Gong.
Firstly the women who practiced mindfulness and deep breathing reported up 90% less symptoms, they could recognize when a hot flash or anxiety or insomnia was on its way and used this coping mechanism to reduce the effects.
The ladies who took part in exercise reported far less symptoms and bone density loss than those who did no exercise. They surveyed runners and cyclists.
Japanese women are reported to suffer least from menopausal symptoms and this was put down to diet consisting of Soya products and plenty of oily fish such as salmon including sushi. Eating a healthy diet with no processed foods was one of the most important factors.
Qi Gong practice has specific gentle movements to regulate your internal thermostat there are also yoga moves as well that give your body hormonal balance, none of these involve difficult movements or a level of fitness, the best is just putting you legs vertically against a wall and breathing, how simple yet effective is that!
Kegel exercises keep your vagina lubricated, tight and work for bladder control.
Qi Gong and gentle yoga also provide relaxation to allow you to sleep properly yet give you energy through the day.
Breathing techniques and sexual intimacy also calm the mind and give you focus and clarity and raise your serotonin levels vital to combat depression.
Women still have the capacity to be orgasmic long after their capacity for bearing children has passed. Making love after many years of a partnership should become an even more enriching experience over the passing of the years through shared experiences, knowing each other's body's and a deep peaceful trust that evolves over time. A true acceptance of of who we are and a bond that has developed.
So please pass this on to anyone you know who is blaming the menopause for ruining their sex life, their body and making them anxious and sleep deprived, it really doesn't have to be that way. It's a mindset and the view that society has held for way too long.
If you need professional guidance on how to change 'The Change' then you're welcome to call me for an informal chat on 0870990970
Wishing you peace and joy.
Why porn Addiction lead to Erectile Dysfunction.
I'm seeing the effects first hand and I'm providing treatment for men who may have only been using porn for a relatively short number of years. Imagine how serious this might become for the younger generation who have found porn in their teenage years.
Viewing porn doesn't always lead to addiction, it's like anything - all is good in moderation.
But any habit that forms to our detriment becomes an issue when it starts to negatively impact our life or affect those around us.
So why does porn lead to Erectile Dysfunction? When you start to rely on the visual then the sensory perception becomes numb, your body doesn't react to touch, scent and personal stimulus. The brain is overloaded with imagery the body (penis) becomes numb and disconnects from the brain. Normally all senses come into play to create sexual fire.
Although it might not affect every man it's certainly something men should be aware of if their porn viewing is more frequent than sexual relations. If your erection cannot be sustained during lovemaking to mutual satisfaction or if orgasm becomes less sensational thus less satisfying, more porn is not the answer.
More touch, more relaxation, more sexual energy is the answer. Wouldn't a man rather be stimulated by sensual touch, hot kissing, the warmth of a real person beside you, the feel of a hot wet vagina and your lovers arms enveloping you in a private heaven.
If porn addiction or overuse/reliance is affecting you and your relationship I can show you how to overcome porn addiction with natural techniques that bring far more powerful orgasmic pleasure for you and your partner and also enable you to overcome addictive behavior.
Please note all sessions are conducted in a fully clothed respectful environment.
One of the main reasons men contact me is because Viagra or Cialis has stopped working or has never worked for them. Something your doctor won't tell you is 'you don't need them!' There is a natural way to regain your erection more powerfully and intensely.
Viagra, Cialis and Levitra also inhibit an intensified orgasmic state.
These so called miracle drugs which list their side effects as nausea, headaches, facial flushing, diarrhoea, stomach pain, chest pain congestion, dizziness, low blood pressure, colour blindness and blurred vision are just doled out by most doctors without looking at their patients lifestyle or emotional state. Also if you suffer from heart problems, stroke or some other medical conditions you are advised against taking them. They have always been a money making gimmick for the pharmaceutical companies that trades on men's insecurities.
Talk therapy can only address part of the cause and there comes a time when talk therapy is done and you have to move on to practical therapies that release tension in the body.
So many times during a session a man has told me they are terrified they'll never experience penetrative sex again.
A circle of anxiety easily builds up and the nervous mind takes over and the body shuts down.
To obtain an authentic erection takes takes a little more time, not just seconds which may have been the case eg. in your twenties or younger. The body changes over the years and a lasting erection should be fueled by natural sexual energy, not only visual stimulation (more on that subject on another blog).
During a Sexual Healing Session you learn how to fully relax, only then can sexual energy flow.
When you engage with your senses the mind stays in the present with an ability to fully enjoy sexual/sensual stimulation.
Performance Anxiety causes your breath to be shallow. By breathing into your body you allow all your vital organs to work efficiently, this allows blood flow into the genital area and energizes the whole body.
You have sexual energy centres. By knowing how your body flows and where your sexual energy centres are located, you or your partner can activate them. These sexual energy centres are not only in your genital area. Areas of your body can hold tension which blocks sexual stimulus. This also fuels your passion for life and your life force energy.
All this is covered in a session of 2 hours or more depending and the reasons behind your visit.
Holistic Sex Therapy can also successfully enable men who are on anti-depressants, medication or who are recovering from Prostate Cancer and Spinal Injuries, I've personally been able to help many men over the years overcome the torment of being unable to sustain an erection to penetration and ultimately orgasm and to be able to satisfy their partners in a more intense way.
Sleep is vitally important for cells to regenerate and for the vital organs to cleanse and repair, if you're sleep deprived then this can effect your erection, these methods also balance your body to relax and regain a regular sleep pattern.
Stress, Anxiety and overthinking the past, all associated with modern living kill an erection, I can help you overcome this with relaxation techniques.
Tension held in the body blocks the sexual sensation, movement and self massage techniques unlock this tension, I can explain how and where during a consultation.
Unfortunately alcohol affects your testosterone levels so sometimes you may need to make some lifestyle choices.
If you would like to take the alternative route to sexual wellness or other methods haven't worked for you then I welcome your call and I can tailor the session to your needs 0870990970.
All sessions are in a fully clothed, tranquil, private environment.
Wishing you light and love again.
You can overcome premature ejaculation.
Premature Ejaculation affects 1 in 3 men at some point in their life that's a great number of the male population, so you are not alone. Although late at night after another failed attempt it may not feel like that.
We no longer need our fight or flight mechanism, man has evolved from that necessary anxiety of red alert for predators. So in our safe haven we should be able to relax and enjoy.
There are options out there and you may have considered Psychotherapy; this treats the mind, thoughts associated but it doesn't link with the body's responses if the tension is held in the body and it can't reprogram the body to enjoy sensuality.
Sadly some doctors will prescribe antidepressants such as Priligy, this only numbs the mind, and the body's responses and alters your body chemistry with toxic pharmaceuticals which can actually lead to a depressed sex drive.
Gels and anesthetic creams, these numb sensation, why would you not want to feel the touch of your partner or her wet vagina, this is part of lovemaking.
There is the holistic method to overcome premature ejaculation and this is what I can offer you. Teaching these methods for many years I can safely say it works because my students have told me it does. It not only frees you from the anxiety associated with premature ejaculation but teaches your body to enhance the whole orgasmic experience. To be fully 'in the moment' during lovemaking, to enjoy the sensuality your body was designed for so you and your partner can experience a deep connection and bliss.
There are many reasons that trigger premature ejaculation and holistic treatment engages your mind body and soul to find a natural balance which frees you from this condition and enable you enjoy all the benefits of a satisfying sex life. These practices originate from the Tao and have been used for centuries for sexual vitality and vigour and longevity.
You may call me 0870990970 in complete confidence to discuss how I can help you.....naturally. No pills, no potions, no magic creams, just you.......naturally.
The 7 Chakra system simply relates to the main organs in your body or they can also be referred to as centres of energy. In Sanskrit Chakra translates to wheel or vortex, these relate to the sources of energy required to run your vital organs, when energy is depleted it causes illness or imbalance in the body.
The Chakras also relate to each vital organ through the emotional state. When we hold on to the past, the memory is not only held in the mind but the cells of the body too. When we are well in mind and body our Chakras are in balance.
This is easily reflected in times of nervousness or fear: we feel sick to our stomach or we have a gut reaction to a decision, a remark whether good our bad touches our heart, we may emit tears of joy or sadness on hearing sensitive news. That's when emotion is felt in the body our Chakra centres.
We also hold tension in parts of our body creating headaches or for instance in our abdomen, digestive problems, lower back pain, anxiety or low self esteem all are linked to a certain organ or Chakra
During a healing touch session I perform energy practices on all the Chakras so eventually this energy will spin in harmony. All those vital centres plus hundreds of others located all around your body are linked to acupressure points and are touched or receive healing energy to activate the sources of your positive energy or Chi (life force energy).
If you're in optimum health, a session will enable you to reach your full potential in life and tune your body to resonate in perfect harmony with yourself, loved ones and the Universe.
Wishing you Love, light and Laughter.
Lomi Lomi Massage – Revitalizing the Body-Clearing the Mind-Healing the Spirit
Lomi Lomi is rooted in the traditional Healing Arts of Hawaii and is a truly holistic experience that facilitates an alignment and restoration of mind and body.
Negatively is not only held in the mind but in the cells of the body too.
This unique experience can also be part of a healthy lifestyle.
A time to appreciate the present, relax and reinvigorate the body, eliminating toxins and cleansing the digestive, circulatory and digestive systems and calming the mind.
The meditation and flowing massage qualities enable you to let go of the trauma of the past and raise your positive energy.
To promote harmony between mind, body, soul which brings profound peace and contentment.
You may benefit from Lomi Lomi Massage if you're prone to;
Holding Trauma Inside
Negative mindset or memories.
High Blood Pressure
Low Immune System and repeated ill health.
If you'd like to experience this beautiful massage then please call Tricia Monk to discuss 0870990970. Aloha!
Tara le mains Author
Hello. I've been studying sexual healing and well being for over 25 years. I'm a certified Naturopathic Sexologist and Holistic Sexual Therapist and have trained with some of the most eminent natural sexual energy masters as well as energy healing, energy medicine, meditation, acupressure, mindfulness, functional nutrition, Qi Gong and yoga for over 25 years. I've received training from some of the renown Masters in these fields including Mantak Chia, I have a Degree in Naturopathic Sexology. I'm Certified by Breathworks UK and The British Mindfulness Institute and Functional Nutrition Alliance. My passion is seeing the change in my students as a session is about learning and knowing yourself, this energy is within all of us, when you feel nurtured, the whole of you feels alive, I awaken that vitality and enable you find your positive change.