It's a bold statement I know. But I'm seeing the effects first hand and I'm providing treatment for men who may have only been using porn for a short number of years. Imagine how serious this might become for the younger generation who have found porn in their teenage years.
Viewing porn doesn't always lead to addiction, it's like anything - all is good in moderation.
But any habit that forms to our detriment becomes an issue when it starts to negatively impact our life or affect those around us.
So why does porn lead to Erectile Dysfunction? When you start to rely on the visual then the sensory perception becomes numb, your body doesn't react to touch, scent and personal stimulus. The brain is overloaded with imagery the body (penis) becomes numb and disconnects from the brain. Normally all senses come into play to create sexual fire.
Although it might not affect every man it's certainly something men should be aware of if their porn viewing is more frequent than sexual relations. If your erection cannot be sustained during lovemaking to mutual satisfaction or if orgasm becomes less sensational thus less satisfying, more porn is not the answer.
More touch, more relaxation, more sexual energy is the answer. Wouldn't a man rather be stimulated by sensual touch, hot kissing, the warmth of a real person beside you, the feel of a hot wet vagina and your lovers arms enveloping you in a private heaven.
If porn addiction or overuse/reliance is affecting you and your relationship I can show you how to overcome porn addiction with natural techniques that bring far more powerful orgasmic pleasure for you and your partner and also enable you to overcome addictive behavior.
Please note all sessions are conducted in a fully clothed respectful environment.
One of the main reasons men contact me is because Viagra or Cialis has stopped working or has never worked for them. Something your doctor won't tell you is 'you don't need them!' There is a natural way to regain your erection more powerfully and intensely.
Viagra, Cialis and Levitra also inhibit an intensified orgasmic state.
These so called miracle drugs which list their side effects as nausea, headaches, facial flushing, diarrhoea, stomach pain, chest pain congestion, dizziness, low blood pressure, colour blindness and blurred vision are just doled out by most doctors without looking at their patients lifestyle or emotional state. Also if you suffer from heart problems, stroke or some other medical conditions you are advised against taking them. They have always been a money making gimmick for the pharmaceutical companies that trades on men's insecurities.
Talk therapy can only address part of the cause and there comes a time when talk therapy is done and you have to move on to practical therapies that release tension in the body.
So many times during a session a man has told me they are terrified they'll never experience penetrative sex again.
A circle of anxiety easily builds up and the nervous mind takes over and the body shuts down.
To obtain an authentic erection takes takes a little more time, not just seconds which may have been the case eg. in your twenties or younger. The body changes over the years and a lasting erection should be fueled by natural sexual energy, not only visual stimulation (more on that subject on another blog).
During a Sexual Healing Session you learn how to fully relax, only then can sexual energy flow.
When you engage with your senses the mind stays in the present with an ability to fully enjoy sexual/sensual stimulation.
Performance Anxiety causes your breath to be shallow. By breathing into your body you allow all your vital organs to work efficiently, this allows blood flow into the genital area and energizes the whole body.
You have sexual energy centres. By knowing how your body flows and where your sexual energy centres are located, you or your partner can activate them. These sexual energy centres are not only in your genital area. Areas of your body can hold tension which blocks sexual stimulus. This also fuels your passion for life and your life force energy.
All this is covered in a session of 2 hours or more depending and the reasons behind your visit.
Holistic Sex Therapy can also successfully enable men who are on anti-depressants, medication or who are recovering from Prostate Cancer and Spinal Injuries, I've personally been able to help many men over the years overcome the torment of being unable to sustain an erection to penetration and ultimately orgasm and to be able to satisfy their partners in a more intense way.
Sleep is vitally important for cells to regenerate and for the vital organs to cleanse and repair, if you're sleep deprived then this can effect your erection, these methods also balance your body to relax and regain a regular sleep pattern.
Stress, Anxiety and overthinking the past, all associated with modern living kill an erection, I can help you overcome this with relaxation techniques.
Tension held in the body blocks the sexual sensation, movement and self massage techniques unlock this tension, I can explain how and where during a consultation.
Unfortunately alcohol affects your testosterone levels so sometimes you may need to make some lifestyle choices.
If you would like to take the alternative route to sexual wellness or other methods haven't worked for you then I welcome your call and I can tailor the session to your needs 0870990970.
All sessions are in a fully clothed, tranquil, private environment.
Wishing you light and love again.
Hello. I've been studying energy healing, energy medicine, meditation, mindfulness, Qi Gong and yoga for over 25 years. I've received training from some of the renown Masters in these fields such as Mantak Chia. I have a Degree in Naturopathic Sexology. I'm Certified by Breathworks UK and The British Mindfulness Institute. My passion is seeing the change in my students as a session is about learning and knowing yourself, this energy is within all of us, when you feel nurtured, the whole of you feels alive, I awaken that vitality and enable you find your positive charge.